Bas-ket-ball….

Our Pre-Juvenille Basketball players

We’ve watched a few of those basketball movies where the coach takes the kids to a winning pennant in 90 minutes. Harold is learning the differences in coaching his daughters instead of his sons. Sometimes girls cry for no reason. They can charge down the court like mad with the ball and then give it up without a basket. But despite the fact that he sometimes doesn’t understand the emotions and that his free time is more than committed I think he’s enjoyed this new season of coaching.

There’s lots of dinner conversation about refs and fouls and “what would make it better” and “do you really want to work that hard?” Today is Family Game Day -a fundraiser for the basketball tournament and a fun day here at school. The athletic director made special shirts for each of his athletes and on the back is stitched “Soli Deo Gloria” (to God alone be the glory) and it’s a good reminder in our culture of superstar athletes. No matter what I do, “work becomes worship when you dedicate if to God and perform it with an awareness of His presence,” (from Rick Warren’s Purpose Driven Life).

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Under Construction

The continuous rumble of the cement mixer is the one thing that mars this perfect day, I thought. While in the US people are posting fall photos, life here on the mountain in Honduras remains quite the same. Perhaps it’s a little cooler. And today is absolutely beautiful with the sun and breeze. Laundry flies like a flag from the line and I could probably do a half dozen loads if it weren’t for the fact that I am sharing water pressure with that noisy cement mixer. Earlier I untangled the jumbled hose and as I walked from retrieving the pressure nozzle found it was now strung across the front yard. Someone sent Jose over to ask if they could “borrow” it and the word yes came out though the thought in my head was less gracious , “looks like you already have.” The workers remind me of ants with a line of five gallon buckets of cement. Several load dirt and gravel continuously into the two mixers while others bring more sifted dirt.

We talk about “sensory adaptation” at dinner (hubby is teaching AP psychology and Charis is his student) and how the mind can choose to block out certain noises- but there are times that I just need to get away from the construction zone that exists in my front yard, or what once was a yard. Now between rainy season and the daily dump truck loads of supplies all that exists are muddy imprints around the piles of dirt, rocks and rebar. Normally I live with the windows open, but the diesel smell from the dump trucks is overpowering  and closing it blocks the sound some. I have to work harder to chose joy when my “personal space” is constantly invaded.

Not long ago, during devotions I about jumped out of my skin as I saw a face moving in our front window. The guard finally knocked softly and let us know that everything was locked up outside. “It’s my job to check it every night. And to make sure your family are ok.” I’m glad for his extra attention to things.

The workers were told they had to complete the project of pouring floors before they left. Fernando from church works there and I thought of his family waiting until long after dark for dinner with Papi. As I took clothes from the line at dusk I could still hear them working and I wondered how long it would be-”keep them safe in the dark Lord.”  Hubby came to ask about lights, “Do we have any we could string up for them so they can see?  I gave them one of our lanterns, but it’s still so dark.”  “No, I don’t think so,” I answered, and he retreated to the junk pile outside the maintenance shed where he managed to find some flourescent lights to rig up. The cement mixer continued to run through dinner and bedtime routine. Then as I heard the foreman’s knock at our door returning the lantern I realized it had stopped.  Lord thanks for keeping them safe, thanks for the cool evening and for a breezy day with enough water to do several loads of laundry, thanks for a quiet afternoon with my kids at the playground, thanks for relationships with the guards and construction workers, thanks for quiet.

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Agradecidos!

Somehow it has more meaning in Spanish. It’s one of the cases where this second language requires fewer words to communicate a meaning. Gratefulness translates as a verb in Spanish and the noun part is understood by the ending. Because giving thanks is just that-active. Somehow the English “I am thankful” just communicates a state of being, our current mood, not an active choice to thank God. Gratefulness is the theme for our year at Pinares. It’s the first year we’ve had a theme, but I think it’s an excellent choice. Too often our focus can turn to all the things that we don’t like, but when we choose to give thanks and actively seek out things to be thankful for it makes us focus on the ways God has blessed us instead. These banners are a reminder each day as kids and parents walk up to classrooms. “What can I be thankful for today?” So for today I am thankful for pizza night with friends and teachers, a long weekend ahead (Discovery of the Americas-courtesy of  Mr. Columbus), a chilly morning that reminds me of fall, being able to walk my elementary students to school each day….

 

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Rag rollers

“Mom will you roll my hair up in curlers?”she asks. So between dinner and devotions we sit in a row and take sections of damp hair and roll them up with pieces of an old sheet. We read about it first several years ago when we read the Little House books aloud.  I rememberd how it looked on the TV series when Mary and Laura rolled their hair in rags with the tied ends sticking out all over their heads. Now my straight haired girls love to have a day of curls.. They head off to bed in happy anticipation, except for Tikvah who has fallen asleep during prayer and must be carried again. I read a few more chapters of the Hardy Boys with Gabe and I laugh when I rember fourth grade and how I wondered what  there would be left to read when I ran out of Hardy Boys mysterys. I want to hold all these days close because I know they are so brief. I try to read another chapter of Platt’s book, Radical, which we are reading for our wives’ study but I can’t concentrate.

How is it that time accelerates as you get older? Tikvah looks forward to “nothing days” where there is no agenda and we have a big breakfast at home and head to the playground for an hour or so. After 22 years with preschoolers, I enjoy having a few hours ahead of quiet to study Spanish and finish cleaning or kitchen projects. We appreciate things more when we’ve known the lack of them-whether it’s curls or time. And I make a mental note to add those things to my gratitude book: rag rollers, sitting in a line of girls doing each other’s hair, curly heads leaning together at the kitchen counter, slow days to enjoy family times….

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Noche de Talentos

“Noche de Talentos” the youth called it. Saturday roughly 220 folks gathered, milling in groups for almost an hour before the program finally started.  Our girls helped act out a drama on the parable of the 10 virgins and closed with a song from Mensajeres. But the act that brought the most applause was Jorgito straining for every note and Zoila accompanying him when his voice was too tired. You see Jorgito has CP and though his mind is active, his body won’t cooperate in the way he would like it to. He was in several acts, his Dad or Richard carried him up onto the stage and had to push those stubborn arms into place so that he wouldn’t be sprawled out of the chair. But this is “normal” in our church. Broken bodies, fractured lives that Christ is restoring. As I paste together photos into the directory I am more aware of the lives that He is healing through their incorporation into the Body. Many of the photos include loose family groupings and finding a name to place on the unit can be a challenge. Alcoholism, drugs, street gangs, children out of wedlock…these were the norm for so many before they learned to “walk in His way” as the Spanish translates.

As we took communion yesterday I looked around and I thought,”Yes, I’m finally feeling a part of this body.” Though most of my life looks so much different, we have joined to become hands and feet on this mountain. When I walk to the mercedito, I enjoy greeting folks I know from this body. I’m excited that in about a month we’ll have another “mass wedding” and witness 5 couples making their marriage official before God. As the plate goes by I draw out my own small piece of cracker and smile at Belkis beside me. I tuck the sermon notes with all my scribbled definitions into my back pack. Some days I feel I spend most of the morning flipping through my bilingual dictionary. I suppose language is one of my areas of brokeness that God is working through right now. Some days it’s almost overwhelming. I’m so glad He uses our small talent while we are still broken.

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Morning Chaos

Though they should already be dressed they sit giggling and drawing bookmarks at the kitchen counter. Hubby has stayed later and we actually took a few minutes to chat so I’m just entering the fray in the kitchen. “What’s for breakfast?” they ask and I respond, “pancakes.” “I only like pancakes if they have chocolate chips or strawberry syrup.” “Are you making gluten-free?” comes from the other room and someone else asks, “Is there bacon?” “No the bacon was gone long ago, this is Pricesmart weekend so I’ll get more.”
It’s the usual chaos and I love it. We’re still adjusting to the empty spaces left by three older brothers who are off doing their own things these days. We’re thankful for Skype and Facebook and hope to get some kind of texting device eventually for our boy who communicates that way. The distance between the US and us doesn’t seem nearly as far as it did in the days before technology was so accessible.
“Mom, did you print my English paper?” “What day is it? Is it a day 2, I think I have library?” The morning continues and I mix the pancake batter and put whole strawberries in water and add sugar. Normal here looks different than my life did in the states-we don’t own a house or a even a car.(Of course “normal” for a family with eight kids would look different than most anywhere.) I shop weekly if I can so planning ahead is key. “Dates” are grocery shopping together on a Saturday morning and getting a coffee together or a papusa at the market. “I can’t find my uniform. I thought those were my pants but she says they’re hers, are mine in the wash Mom.” I flip another set of pancakes and head out to the laundry in search of a school uniform. Our laundry area is a separate room underneath the water tank. Might seem inconvenient, but we’re grateful for that gravity fed tank when there’s no electric because unlike other folks we can still flush. “Power’s out!” someone yells from the house and I grab the missing pants and head back inside. “There’s enough already done here, let’s sit down and eat. We’re working our way through the Jesus Storybook Bible on mornings when the chaos calms enough to read. The kids like how every story ends with foretelling of the One who will come. I read as they eat and we end with lines in our Gratitude Journal. I’m so thankful for all this chaos.

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